Frequently Asked Questions
1. What do you mean by “Oneness” or “everything is energy”?
Most of us were raised inside a Newtonian worldview, even if we’ve never heard the term.
Newton’s world says:
You are a separate thing in a big machine.
Life is external. Random. Unpredictable.
Power lives outside you — in God, authority, systems, money, algorithms, other people.
Einstein turned that on its head.
Einstein’s world says:
Everything is energy.
Nothing is separate.
What looks solid is actually relationship, movement, vibration.
You participate in it all.
Oneness doesn’t mean “nothing hurts” or “we’re all the same.” It means there is no true separation between you and life.
You are not in the system.
You are the system expressing as you.
That single shift changes where power lives.
2. Why does it feel like I have no control over my life?
Because you were trained to feel that way.
Church. Parenting. School. Culture. Media. Social media.
All of it is deeply Newtonian.
It teaches:
Be good
Be careful
Try harder
Manage yourself
Hope things work out
Someone needs to save you.
You’re not enough on your own.
Things need to look "good" and “normal”
That worldview requires you to feel small, vigilant, and dependent.
If life feels like a constant fight, that’s not a personal failure.
That’s the operating system you were handed.
This work is about switching systems.
From “life happens to me”
to “life is responding to me.”
3. How can I be responsible for things that happened to me?
This is where people get understandably nervous — so let’s be clear.
Responsibility is not blame.
Responsibility is ownership and authorship.
As a human, you did not choose abuse, neglect, trauma, loss, or harm.
Those things happened inside the game.
But if everything is energy — and you are not separate from life — then responsibility simply means this:
What’s happening now is being created from the inside out.
Not because you’re wrong.
Not because you deserved “bad” things.
But because ownership and authorship is where power lives.
Blame locks you into the past.
Responsibility opens the future.
If you didn’t create it – how do you think you’re going to change it?
4. Are you saying I chose the bad things in my life?
Not as a human.
But zoom out.
If you are infinite, unlimited, eternal energy — and this life is an experience — then you didn’t come here for safety and predictability.
You came for:
Contrast
Challenge
Complexity
Twists and turns
Increasing difficulty
A wild ride
Like a game.
No one plays a game set on “easy” forever.
You didn’t choose pain as punishment.
You chose experience — knowing you could remember who you are at any point.
This doesn’t minimize what you’ve lived.
It contextualizes it.
And context restores power.
5. What’s the difference between responsibility and blame?
Blame is a Newtonian moral concept.
Someone’s wrong. Someone’s at fault. Someone must pay.
Responsibility is an Einsteinian power concept.
Someone authors. Someone chooses. Someone creates something else.
Blame shrinks you.
Responsibility puts your hands back on the wheel.
You don’t take responsibility to shame yourself.
You don’t take responsibility to punish yourself.
You take it to reclaim your infinite, unlimited, eternal power.
6. Is this just “think positive” or manifestation with better language?
No.
“Think positive” is still Newtonian.
It says: override yourself, manage your thoughts, force outcomes.
That’s exhausting.
This work doesn’t ask you to replace thoughts.
It asks you to see what’s actually true.
When clarity happens, the system reorganizes naturally.
No affirmations.
No pretending.
No bypassing.
7. If everything is energy and just an experience, does that mean nothing matters?
It means the opposite.
When life is seen as meaningless, people numb out.
When life is seen as punishment, people tighten up.
When life is seen as experience, it becomes vivid and open to endless possibilities.
Feelings matter.
Relationships matter.
Choices matter.
They just don’t threaten your worth or your existence anymore.
You stop surviving life
and start participating in it.
8. What if I don’t believe I’m infinite, unlimited, eternal energy?
Perfect.
Belief is not required here but honest deep curiosity is.
Belief is actually very Newtonian — rigid and positional.
Einstein didn’t believe his way into discoveries.
He questioned assumptions.
You don’t have to adopt a worldview.
You only have to notice your experience.
If something resonates before your brain agrees, that’s enough.
9. How is this different from therapy or coaching?
Most therapy and coaching still operate inside a Newtonian frame:
Fix the human. Manage the system. Cope better.
That can feel helpful sometimes — and also incomplete.
This work doesn’t optimize the cage.
It questions why the cage feels real at all.
We don’t manage symptoms.
We dissolve the story creating them.
Different lane. Different outcome.
10. What if I’m afraid of what I’ll see if I really look?
That fear makes sense.
Because the scariest part of this work isn’t blame —
it’s realizing how much power you actually have.
Freedom can feel destabilizing before it feels liberating.
But here’s the truth:
Nothing ugly is hiding inside you.
Only unexamined stories.
And stories lose their teeth once you see them clearly.
What to talk about this? Find out what a Clarity Call is.